Reflection
By reflecting feelings, we show that we understand the speaker’s state, and also help him understand his emotional state: “It seems to me that you feel... You are probably very upset...”. Technology is very human. But not every consultant uses it when working with adults, because... there is a danger of “contagion”, emotional burnout. With a certain amount of artistry from the consultant, the technique gives positive dynamics in establishing close contact. But... “We are always responsible for those we have tamed...”. In other words, penetration into the experiences of another person and their mirror reflection is sometimes perceived as empathy for everything that the client talks about. Caution in using this technique primarily concerns the correctness of expressions and intonation of the consultant’s speech.
